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Diana M. Wilson's avatar

The timing of your question is uncanny as I just yesterday posted an essay on "tending"--to oneself, and to the world. (So clearly, it's a question I'm struggling with as well.)

A couple of thoughts--The fact that you're worried you're not doing enough is a great indicator that you're likely doing more than your fair share! And to add to that...

I remember years ago when I was struggling with essentially this same issue, a therapist said to me: In your effort to be good and to do good, no one is asking you to martyr yourself along the way. You don't have to be a saint to be and do good. (I guess that falls under the "progress not perfection" umbrella.)

Thanks for this post and for using one of my favorite quotes (justice well up like water...) which Comey used years ago in a post...that indictment was yet another "interesting" event from this "interesting" week.

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Beth T (BethOfAus)'s avatar

Sigh. Troubled times. My neighbour is an ex-Nun. She spends so many of her waking hours ‘doing service’. But most of us truly need to balance that work with time that allows us to ‘refill the well’. We can’t look away from the car crash that is America, but we can find time to do things where we can be fully in the moment - physical activities, arts and crafts, light reading, brain training, or simply connecting more with those we love. This too shall pass. I hope. Take care dear fellow. All the best.

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